Monday, October 03, 2005

Why I Write...my thoughts

I know I've been asked by some of you, some people that I know, and some that I have never met, or just happen to send me an e-mail from other 'adult' swing web sites that I am on, why I don't write too much naughty stuff? yes, I do agree with you. People want to read the sexy stuff! I even love to read the sexy stuff! Let's face it...SEX SELLS. I know there are alot of blogs related to "swinging adventures" or "sex diaries" etc...(who knows, perhaps one is mine anonymously!:) that are just to juicy to read! I mean were not perverts of some sort. Were just more open and uninhibited than the majority. I think people are so enthralled and allured by the whole idea of the kinkyness and just being plain naughty with other people besides your mate! Mind you, the whole swinging idea is not one of deceit, eveything is pretty much open on the table and consenting!! I mean, who wants to read escapades about you and your spouse? ( or other) no one really. They want to read the details that's "out of the norm." Whether or not you agree with this swinging lifestyle, that's your business...
Well, back to question...perhaps I will write more naughty stuff, but if you read some of my past posts, this blog is more about me personally. I really didn't intend this on being a Swing blog of some sort. It's ok with me if 7 people hit this site, or 70,000 like my other sites. It's ok with me.
I write because it's just my release. I also write so I can keep track of what the hell is going on in my life. How I feel at this place and time. This is more of the 'Romantic' side of me that I didn't know existed! I mean, Sex is Sex, yes, it is a good thing. I know what I am capable of doing in and out of the bedroom. I don't have to prove myself to anyone. I like to be remembered for who I am inside, not how I looked, dressed, etc... Sometimes, I write because I am lonely. Yes, we all get lonely at times.
I write because I just want to get some of my thoughts, dreams, fears, and maybe even fantasies out in the open. But for me, in this lifestyle, I am already living in the "moment" of the fantasy, (not living the fantasy) and that is the beauty of it. I mean just where will you ever see one girl having 4 cocks standing over her all at once?? or having a guy have his cock sucked by 5 different women because it was his birthday? I mean literally!!! That was one lucky guy! (and girl!) yes, it does happen! 4 or 5 years ago, I would've thought WTF? but now, BRING IT ON! SOME PEOPLE DO CHANGE! Because once an escapade is over, that's it... we are back to reality. Back to work, back to bills, back to life. And in those 'moments' I treasure. (we all love to have good sexual experiences but I wont lie, there have been ones I would rather forget!) That's why I tend to shy away from writing about them. The ones I keep, I keep close to my heart...but who knows???? you just might read something naughty soon...:)